real talk though. lets pretend for a second that rey isn’t in love with Finn(she is) and its strictly platonic between the two (its not). i think we can all at least agree that rey and finn are best friends. rey/lo fundamentally misunderstands who rey is. for a girl who is obsessed with the idea of finding friends and having a family rey/los version of rey really disregards finn and the resistance feelings about the first order. she disregards the fact that her new boyfriend sliced her best friends back open putting him in a coma and was complicit in his enslavement. she disregards that the members of the resistance, have lost countless friends and loved ones at the hands of Kylo and the first order.and this is all if you pretend like rey has no self-respect and forgives kylo for torturing her and throwing her up against a tree. if you think rey is going to say “finn i understand that they enslaved you but i love kylo” you haven’t been paying attention to what is at the heart of rey’s character.
i cant imagine a scenario where finn would forgive kylo at all let alone forgive him enough for reylo to be a possible outcome. if rey intends to keep being friends with finn she will have to choose between the two and cannot fathom the idea that Disney, a family oriented company that centers all of its stories on friendship, will just gleefully breakup the key friendship at the heart of these movies?
This is why all the reylo hadcanons have Finn easily forgiving Kylo which is in itself yaigh.