Yes, Nakia has had a better life than Killmonger no doubt, and it’s all the more reason to argue that children should be brought up in safe and loving circumstances so that more of them will experience and therefore model compassion.
At the same time–and please tell me if I’m out of line here because I know Killmonger’s rage is specific to his background as a Black person in a deeply racist society–I think Killmonger could not choose his childhood circumstances but chose how to respond to them.
He responded in part with hard work and excellence, and it’s often overlooked that the man is a fuckin’ prodigy and genius who graduated early from Annapolis, went to M.I.T. for grad work, and became the most elite of elite soldiers. I’m guessing genius runs in the family, if Shuri is any indication.
He also responded by choosing to kill innocent people in pursuit of vengeance. I sympathize with his rage, knowing that I cannot share it in full, but his rage itself did not make him a murderer. His decisions did. Neither he nor any child should never have been exposed to such deprivation and abandonment and his anger at the injustice is legitimate, but he still had a choice what to do with his anger.
So yes, I think it’s still a legitimate comparison because both Nakia and Erik made choices in response to their circumstances. Just as Nakia, born an elite of Wakanda, chose not to adopt the complacency of her peers, Erik, thrust into terrible circumstances through no fault of her own, chose to respond with destructive revenge unlike many others in similar circumstances who choose to respond with kindness and positive change.