Many mutuals of mine are mutuals of yours. I am saying this not hiding like a child behind anon. You are not an anti-reylo and you really should state exactly where you stand w/r/t reylo so people can make informed decisions as to whether to interact with your blog. I can’t speak for all my mutuals, but I know there are several who would not have touched your blog with a 10 foot pole if they knew you felt as you do with reylo. You have a right to ship as you wish. Others have a right to avoid.

You’re very correct, of course, that you have a right not to interact with me. As for me stating my stance, idk how I can get any clearer than I already have been? Take that as you will and make your own decision. These constant demands for repetition grow tiresome.

Shortly after TFA came out, a reylo wrote a finnrey story where Finn is a soldier back from war married to Rey and because of PTSD, he begins abusing her emotionally and physically. She feels she needs to stick by him because of the PTSD even though she has fallen for “Ben” while Finn was at war. The author said she was working through issues of her father who was a soldier with PTSD who returned from Afghanistan and abused her mother. How is this different from your situation?

Are you seriously comparing a fic that depicts Finn as an abuser to a fic that depicts BS as an abuser? What you’re describing is pretty much the situation with the reylow batb abo AU (cursed!) that put Finn in Gaston’s role. For that matter it’s also like their metas and videos that say Poe is Gaston: shifting BS’s violence against Rey onto Finn and Poe for reasons that have nothing to do with canon and everything to do with BS woobification and implicit racism. They had a right to create these works, and others had a right to criticize them.

And anyway, when you *know* how damaging r*ylo is to fans of color, especially black fans, you don’t get to be petty about your answers. Admit it one way or the other that you ship it instead of playing both sides.

Both sides, like I even could 😂 like reylows are ever going to give me the time of day after I exposed their pathetic asses again and again? I answered already in great and truthful detail, and any more demands for an answer will be deleted as the annoyances they are.

Also, that person simply asked about shipping r*ylo. They didn’t ask about the multiple definitions of shipping. You knew what they meant when they asked it. If you were defensive about it, then you simply shouldn’t have replied instead of being petty.

I answered fully and completely, according to the multiple definitions that do in fact exist. Demanding a yes or no answer to a question that has multiple meanings, and not only refusing to clarify but getting testy at me for clarifying is really disingenuous and, frankly, a bullying tactic.

Also, did you say that people are free to explore rape and abuse and we shouldn’t say anything against it? What the fuck is wrong with you. I don’t have a narrow sense of the world, you just don’t care about the horrors of rape and abuse and justify rape apologism

So people shouldn’t write about rape ever, including to show how traumatic and awful it is? Of course these works can be criticized, like Lolita has been criticized for confusing framing. But if by speak against you mean criticizing the very creation of works featuring pedophilia and rape? Then yeah, you’re drinking the crazy juice hard there my friend. Rape and abuse are parts of the human experience and should be explored through art, provided warnings are given so people are not exposed unawares. A work can be criticized for how well and responsibly it treats the subject, but to say these sensitive subjects can’t be written about or explored? That’s not a rational position and it’s actively harmful.

My categories are to rigid but looking woke ™ is cool, great 😂 I’d rather not write 400 things about how shitty reylo is and then be “exploring” a ship based on canon abuse and r/ape parallels but okay I guess i’m weird lmao. Bye I won’t keep arguing with a hypocrite ✌️

So you do think anyone who makes content featuring anything bad is automatically endorsing that bad thing lmaooo bye won’t be missing you 😂