Listen I’m bi as Heck and as much as I love girls, I also love boys? Boys are amazing and pure and liking boys is a wonderful feeling? I never see a lot of posts talking about cute boys so
Some Boy Aesthetics™ I’m in love with include:
Their tired grins? Have you seen a cute boy grin when he’s tired? Life Changing
Sleeves rolled up to forearms is all good and Well but also when they have Sweater Paws in their hoodies or jumpers? Makes the tallest of them seem so smol? I’m lov?
When they run their hand through their hair and it sticks up in places and it looks So Good
Collar Bones
Soft pudgy stomachs they absolutely make me melt
When ya boy gets flustered A++ Bonus points if he giggles Boys giggling is Everything
I think this is like the first positive post about boys that isnt to do with a celebrity for ages and it is actually super nice to read????
since janelle has come out, y’all have called her “biphobic” for identifying as both bi and pan, or a “mogai libqueer” for the same reason. y’all have said she isn’t “really” gnc and that she’s very feminine and “wearing pants doesn’t make her gnc”. y’all have said she fits “eurocentric standards of beauty” and that she’s “not good gnc representation” because she’s thin. y’all have now said that she “extorts lesbians” and isn’t to be trusted. again, the only reason you pieces of trash get away with saying any of this is bc she’s a Black bi woman lol.
Anti-blackness is a hell of a drug apparently. God, white queer folk can be so transparent
That’s a stupid way to look at it. Being asexual doesn’t make me more “pure” or “clean” than someone who has or wants sex. Leave. Seriously. Get the fuck out.
For me, personally, realizing I was on the ace spectrum actually helped me separate my lack of sex drive from moralizing and slut-shaming. Before I learned asexuality was a thing and was completely okay, I rationalized things by telling myself I didn’t have a low sex drive, I was just a ~*~rational~*~ and ~*~moral~*~ person. Otherwise I would have to admit I was broken and abnormal, and that was unacceptable when I was already doing mental summersaults to hide from everyone, even (especially) myself, that I was getting crushes on girls as well as boys.
When I learned that there is actually a wide normal range of libido and I was part of it, that was a huge relief and I could, slowly and in steps, lay down the idea that I was somehow morally superior for not wanting to have sex. Ace positivity helped me become less judgmental and more sex-positive, if about the sex that other people were having.
So to take asexuality, which has given me and likely others the safety to unlearn our warped ideas about sex and purity, and twist it into a means of self-righteous judgment of others? Like what the fuck anon. Go step on all the legos, you hypocritical piece of shit.
Pink, lavender, and blue stripes, the colors of the bisexual pride flag!
@bubblepunk99s Blazing white at the tips blending from grey to black near the hilt, with purple, green, and yellow streaks! It also has an invisible edge just beyond the white, so that it cuts an inch before anyone expects.
The bisexual colors lightsaber actually has two overlapping blades, one pink, one blue, to produce many shades of lavender in the middle.
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