bi women asking to not be written off based on relationship status =/= “forcing you to care about m/f relationships”, so jot that down
honestly this wouldn’t be an issue if people viewed bi women as fully fledged humans and not units within a relationship (usually m/f ones because people LOVE to treat us as extensions to men)
so what if she’s in a monogomous relationship with a man? she’s a whole person who has a whole world and identity outside of it. To deny her community based on relationship status is to deny her personhood outside of her relationships.
and to deny her personhood outside of her relationships is to isolate her and make her more susceptible to abuse from straight men!
I wonder if this is why bisexual people have such high rates of being abused.
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