reynobae:
Why are the rylos trying to call antis ableist for criticizing Kylo, just because they headcanon him as having BPD? Iâve seen more and more posts like this on my dash and itâs just pissing me off so much. Just a warning, this is more of a spur-of-the-moment rant than any coherent analysis of Kyloâs character, but I just needed to vent.
First off, itâs a headcanon, not a definite fact. Headcanons are subjective in the best of times. Even though I agree that Kylo displays many BPD symptoms (a la Anakin in the prequels), this has never been confirmed either by supplementary material or Lucasfilm executives. Because of that simple fact, other fans have the right to headcanon Kyloâs mental health in any damn way they please. So do you! You are perfectly free to headcanon Kylo as BPD, but that doesnât mean you can go around forcing your headcanon onto others.
Second, and more importantly, having a mental illness is no excuse for committing atrocities such as murder, genocide, patricide, terrorism, and mental violation. I stated when I reblogged the original post that there is a difference between an explanation and a justification, and Iâll reaffirm that. If Kylo was confirmed as having BPD, nothing is changed about his morality. The way he acts would be better explained, sure, but certainly not justified.
Thereâs a difference and people need to get that into their heads. Mental illness does not physically make you do anything, and I say this as some who has faced these issues multiple times. It influences you heavily and dangerously, but any physical reaction is a response that you yourself have decided to act on. Mental illnesses are terrible misfortunes that mess up your perception of life in general, and although they may influence you heavily, you are still responsible for carrying out these awful actions.Â
Hell, I have bipolar disorder. If I commit a murder and blame a manic episode for âmaking me do it,â I still deserve to be prosecuted. What makes Kylo any different?Â