Asshole. Damn asshole. You make us look bad. All the Rey/o asked is for us to not refer to the pairing as an illness that kills people but whatever, go on and embarrass us for acting like a child. Good job you heartless human.

lj-writes:

firebour:

lj-writes:

This is the exchange this ask and the prior ask are referring to, by the way.

I mean, we all have our wishes. All that abuse survivors who are antis ask is that Reynos stop romanticizing abuse…

All that fans of color who are antis ask is that Reynos stop replacing Finn with Kylo Ren…

All that decent fucking human beings ask is that Reynos stop justifying actual war crimes (and yes, false moral equivalence counts)…

And what were they told? That they were oversensitive. That other survivors/fans of color/people (who are not so oversensitive) did not feel the same so they were Wrong. That they should filter the #reyno tag (ignoring the fact that there is no good way to do this on mobile).

In this context the reyno shipper’s request was not based on shared empathy or humanity. It was emotional exploitation, pure and simple, a demand for one-sided consideration where none had been given in the other direction.

So yeah, you bet your ASS I was an asshole about it. Empathy is a two-way street, and I have very little to spare for someone who has consistently and wilfully refused to give any.

But you know what? I didn’t tell her she was oversensitive. I didn’t tell her her concerns were invalid because I felt differently in a comparable situation. I didn’t tell her to filter the anti tag. I do not take kindly to the kind of exploitation she was attempting, but I agreed to her request. Which is more than shippers including her have ever been willing to do for antis.

It took me so many years and so many hurts to see through and stand up to emotional manipulation, and I am never going to be less than brutally honest–and yes, an asshole–when I see it happen.

If you don’t like that, the unfollow and block buttons are free. Buh-bye!

Me: Cancer kills

You: I don’t care

Yeah, I lost my mom to cancer and I don’t care. Because that’s exactly what I said in the op. Fuck off of my blog, creep.

Here is certified creep and stalker @firebour, on record, refusing to stay away from someone after being asked to. Fortunately the block button exists, so bye.

Asshole. Damn asshole. You make us look bad. All the Rey/o asked is for us to not refer to the pairing as an illness that kills people but whatever, go on and embarrass us for acting like a child. Good job you heartless human.

firebour:

lj-writes:

This is the exchange this ask and the prior ask are referring to, by the way.

I mean, we all have our wishes. All that abuse survivors who are antis ask is that Reynos stop romanticizing abuse…

All that fans of color who are antis ask is that Reynos stop replacing Finn with Kylo Ren…

All that decent fucking human beings ask is that Reynos stop justifying actual war crimes (and yes, false moral equivalence counts)…

And what were they told? That they were oversensitive. That other survivors/fans of color/people (who are not so oversensitive) did not feel the same so they were Wrong. That they should filter the #reyno tag (ignoring the fact that there is no good way to do this on mobile).

In this context the reyno shipper’s request was not based on shared empathy or humanity. It was emotional exploitation, pure and simple, a demand for one-sided consideration where none had been given in the other direction.

So yeah, you bet your ASS I was an asshole about it. Empathy is a two-way street, and I have very little to spare for someone who has consistently and wilfully refused to give any.

But you know what? I didn’t tell her she was oversensitive. I didn’t tell her her concerns were invalid because I felt differently in a comparable situation. I didn’t tell her to filter the anti tag. I do not take kindly to the kind of exploitation she was attempting, but I agreed to her request. Which is more than shippers including her have ever been willing to do for antis.

It took me so many years and so many hurts to see through and stand up to emotional manipulation, and I am never going to be less than brutally honest–and yes, an asshole–when I see it happen.

If you don’t like that, the unfollow and block buttons are free. Buh-bye!

Me: Cancer kills

You: I don’t care

Yeah, I lost my mom to cancer and I don’t care. Because that’s exactly what I said in the op. Fuck off of my blog, creep.

awonderfulfiction:

lj-writes:

awonderfulfiction:

lj-writes:

awonderfulfiction:

lj-writes:

has anyone done this yet

So, your dumb ass is going to use art about Indian Soldiers sacrificing their life to save people from terrorists, for ship wars? You little shit!

Are you this mad about all the comedic permutations of this graphic floating around, or are you selectively outraged because it denigrates Reylo?

This is the first time I am seeing shit like this. I dont care if this is Reylo or anything else. You have no idea about Indians, or about our soldiers or how insensitive this is. You are an ignorant ass and this proves it. 

You mean the same Indian army that’s killing, raping, and torturing civilians in Kashmir? Sorry mate, I’m not up the ass of any military, including my own country’s. 😘

Good for you that you believe false western propaganda without knowing the actual struggle.

Hey everyone Indian government-compiled statistics are Western propaganda now

duoonslaught:

thirdchild09:

Sorry for the crappy quality for Rey’s half of the pic but ever since people started uploading the deleted scenes, I took one look at Finn’s face and knew I had seen it somewhere before (on Rey’s face) I feel like this is a facial expression of longing. And what is it that each of them is looking at?? The other person. They lonnnnnng for each other lol. What do y’all think??

Doesnt make sense, as seen in the last jedi.. rei wants that swoll boi. Kylo Ren is her boytoy

Trust the racist troll to be a reylo…😊

devilinhighheels:

theassholeantiarchive:

skip-is-tired:

boredandhungryfeminist:

True talk

The only reason why Rey thinks Kyle might be redeemable in TLJ is because of Finn. Think about it:

In the TFA, as soon as Finn and Rey became an alliance, he always put her needs first, which she has never experienced in her life before. When Finn explains himself to Rey, she understands his situation of being is a man who was orphaned, tortured and conditioned into being a foot soldier for the evil. But even despite this and his obvious fear of the First Order, he puts his neck on the line to save Rey and the Resistance time and time again from joining the resistance mission to fighting Kyle.

No wonder she thought Kyle could be redeemed because if Finn, who has without a doubt suffered more in his lifetime than Kyle has, can take a stand toward the light and be a goddamn hero then any decent person can.

Only problem is Kyle isn’t a decent person and certainly isn’t nearly as good as Finn is.

Hey op you realize Kylo and Finn two different characters right. Both went through abuse Kylo( Snoke) and Finn( Fo) both of their abuse were different. This literally like “ good survivor” vs “ bad survivor” Both have their own arcs and paths

Like abuse people pick up signs different. Not everyone is lucky to noticed let alone get out when they have chance. Finn saw a chance and got out however it’s not quite same for Kylo.

You don’t need pit these two characters against each other. You don’t need to lift Finn up while pushing Kylo down.

Dislike Kylo fine but it’s really not needed to say why you like Finn.

People who compare abuse survivors and say UWU one should do better because another succeeded are the scummiest assholes who have no comprehension of how hard it is to recover.

This literally sounds so god damn ableist. What the fuck, OP

Some people?? commit mass murder?? to cope???

nathan-lambert:

I’ll always be here for Finnrose, cause at least the shippers there won’t try and shove their ‘politics’ down my throat. Plus it’s already more progressive than Finnrey in the first place which is why it’s humorous to see them try and tear it down when it fits their agenda of having an interracial couple…

Because people only like Finnrey for the race and not the dynamic, right? And can’t possibly have valid complaints against Finnrose? Get this crap out of the Finnrey tag, troll.

finndeservesbetter:

Why am I not surprised that a reylo’s primary problem with Uprising is the fact that a Black man is the lead instead of some white guy that’s been dead since the first movie lol.

Also they ship several incest ships so………

Herc who? I mean there are people in the notes pointing out he isn’t dead, but dude is so irrelevant he might as well be.