Hey, genuine question…what do we do if Reylo really does get confirmed? Like I know we can debunk lots of stuff but with the marketing, the recent actors quotes and Rian Johnson…even the mainstream media acknowledging it’s likely…I just think that it’s the most likely scenario now. It sucks but I just think that even f it’s wrong it’ll happen…:(

If Star Wars wants to destroy itself and go full-on white supremacist, let it. I won’t have any more reason to support it or care about it. I personally think it’s your dread talking and not your reason–but if I’m wrong, then Star Wars is dead to me and that’s it.

If Rey Solo ends up being true, how long do you think it will be until we see Solo-c3st discourse?

kimshinegyu:

lj-writes:

porgsitter:

lj-writes:

CAN IT BE NEVER NEVER IS FINE, THANKS

If it isn’t never I am going to delete the fandom

Supernatural fandom, you are CANCELED!

If cousin ben week was an acceptable thing in fandom then brother ben won’t be a huge leap for them :/

Oh my God it even alliterates I’m

hanorganaas:

I should be worried that Daisy said Finn and Rey were like Luke and
Leia…but then again….Luke DID have a crush on Leia and Leia did initiate
a Kiss with her brother so…

🤷

Not even remotely the same situation, L & L were actual siblings while Finn and Rey, if anything, are confirmed NOT to be siblings because no way would Daisy be giving out a spoiler like that. I understand you’re making a joke but Finnrey would not be incest whether it becomes canon or not.

Maybe it’s a cultural thing but the whole brother-sister comment doesn’t bother me? Back when we were dating my husband literally called me his Big Sister. Women here commonly call their older boyfriends and husbands Big Brother, and depending on the relationship and the people involved I’m sure it’s seen in same-gender and genderqueer couples, too.

My husband and I have been close enough to be siblings going on 10 years now and have been told we actually look alike. It’s actually a pretty good basis for a romantic relationship if that is what both people want, for 2 unrelated people to be so close that they feel kinship and always have each others’ back.

So I read an anti Finnrey and pro Rello meta saying Finnrey is “some Nice Guy bullshit” and that Finn has a “small crush” which Rey doesn’t reciprocate. Their romance, according to the writer, is never encouraged in the narrative–it’s something Finn has to grow out of, in other words.

Maybe I should be mad at the willful blindness toward Finn and Rey’s chemistry and the blatant double standard when it comes to discussing male entitlement. Instead the whole thing is so hilarious I can’t stop laughing?? Like, someone who ships a female character with the male character who literally assaulted, abducted, and tortured her is calling Finn a Nice Guy. Shippers find it cute that the female half of their ship outright hates the male half while they have the nerve to talk about Finn’s supposedly unrequited attraction. Do they even listen to themselves?

In your opinion would rey’lo be as popular if finn were white? I think it wouldn’t be but others say it wouldn’t matter because people were thirsting for Ad’m Dr’ver before and unless they got someone like Tom Holland or Aaron Taylor-Johnson tone play finn rey’lo would still be as big.

diversehighfantasy:

becketted:

It wouldn’t be. It would exist, and it would be somewhat popular, because hero-villain ships always exist (if they’re both white, see how little K*ylo/Finn there is -not that I want there to be more), even with het pairings (though hero/villain pairings are more widespread among slash fandoms, in my experience), but it would be a lot less popular, and it would be less popular than both Finnrey and FinnPoe if Finn was white. Finn being a person of color and Finn being specifically a black man is the main factor in the excessive popularity of R/eylo, let’s be honest here. Finn is the male protagonist of the new trilogy, so he should naturally get a lot of fandom attention. “Naturally”, but you know, fandom. Like villains are always going to be popular, even in cases where the hero is a white dude, but what we are seeing with K/ylo is not the usual state of things. Fandom couldn’t accept a black man as the heroic Star Wars, so they scrambled to elevate the Space Facist white Boy to the place of heroic protagonist.

(the way R7eylo would be dramatically less popular then it is now is though, the other way around, if K/ylo was a man of color -and esp a black man-, the pairing would be almost non-existent and there would be very few readings of Rey’s pain at the hands of a Space Nazi as “sexual tension” or “hot” as there are now)

lol A/dam D/river wasn’t really a fandom darling before SW so that’s completely a fabrication to deflect criticisms of racism. Fandom will latch onto the closest mediocre-looking white dude and they will make it a sex symbol as soon as they appear in something big (like seriously, Benedict Cumberbatch wasn’t even considered attractive by any standard before Sherlock). No, i never saw any particular love or even knowledge of Driver before SW, he was the creepy dude from “Girls”. 

unless they got someone like Tom Holland or Aaron Taylor-Johnson tone play finn” Both actors were unknown to fandom before playing roles in superhero franchises so what the hell is that argument? Are they saying those bland dudes are more attractive than John Boyega? Are they saying John Boyega had less previous fans than Driver and that’s the thing? That’s a very weak argument. Nah, if they had gotten a virtual unknown to play Finn but he was white R/eylo wouldn’t be as insidiously huge as it is.

As long as the actor is white, and young-ish (sometimes not even that) and not fat there will be a huge fandom. If opposite them they happen to have actors/characters of color their popularity will increase above natural levels. No offense to Charlie Day or Burn Gorman, but those are two ugly-looking dudes, yet they singlehandedly became the sex symbols and got-to-ship for a film that included Idris Elba and Rinko Kikuchi. Likewise why are the most popular pairings in the new Star Wars those who involve Space Nazis? Space Nazis who look like Driver and Gleeson (again no offense, I love Glesson)???? (and yeah i went on a tangent with K/ylux here, cause that’s also reflective of the same problem that has pushed R/eylo to such fandom numbers)

If any other random white dude instead of A/dam D/river had played K/ylo then R/eylo would be as big as it is now, because the actor is not the point here. It’s fandom’s racist patterns.

A lot of people have written about this, people more equipped then me for these uqestions. I’d recommend you seek fans of color, and especially black fans to discuss these matters, and check out blogs like @diversehighfantasy or @starwarsfandomh8speopleofcolor etc

I can vouch for the fact that there was no influx of Driver fans in the Star Wars fandom ahead of TFA. Not saying he didn’t have fans before TFA, Girls was popular (just not Tumblr popular). But it was nothing like in the Star Trek movie fandom when Cumberbatch fans flooded in ahead of Into Darkness. 

There was very little hype about Driver being cast in TFA in Star Wars fan spaces and social media. Most had no idea who he was, and the ones who did were basically like “the creepy ex boyfriend on Girls? I could see him as a Star Wars villain.” 90% of the talk about Kylo before TFA was the new lightsaber (which a lot of fans hated, but then fans complained about every single thing in the trailers). 

I remember because I actually thought Driver was good casting and was surprised more people didn’t talk about his (then) mysterious bad guy character.

It was mainly because he did almost no promotional stuff, while we got to see John and Daisy goofing around in the desert between takes and bantering with each other on social media (which I really miss – they were such a fun duo out of character it made me so excited to see them together on screen – and there was zero reylo backlash).

But his lack of promotion and no introduction to the fans via social media doesn’t explain why there were few pre-existing AD fans in the SW fandom at the time.

Kylo/Reylo got popular when the movie came out and Rey and Finn were a pair for almost the whole thing. It wouldn’t have matter what white actor played him. As long was Finn was Black they were going to look to the nearest white guy to take his place. And if Finn was white his story wouldn’t have been downplayed with the most sympathetic parts applied to Kylo. Fandom will deny this until they’re blue in the face, but that’s the recurring pattern across fandoms. 

“I ship Rey/o-”

“-because the interrogation scene was soooo sexy and the bridal carry? True love! Kyle O. wanted to beat up whathisface because he was standing next to Rey tee hee! *sigh* Also the gay boy (I love him!!) and Rey don’t have any chemistry whatsoever but crop him out of his scenes with Rey to add Kale and it’s instant sexay. Kal Rogo did nothing wrong in his life uwu it was a war and he was abused from the womb so everything’s ok and he’ll come back for his little Rey of sunshine! Disney would be crazy to pass on those cash cow Rey/o babies anyway so suck on that antis right Rey/o fam? And that’s the Tea.”

insp.