justherefordaart:

thisoneshade:

LOUDER

Skepticism isn’t a lack of support though. Proper diagnosis is important, and if you don’t test positive, it’s time to check for other potential causes, like overconsumption of foods that promote estrogen/testosterone count in the body. It’s always better to find the right answer than the answer you wanted.

Um like what do you think being transgender is?

imoldbutimstillintothat:

lj-writes:

thestreetwallpaper:

lj-writes:

thestreetwallpaper:

cullingofthelambs:

glsen:

What you should and should NOT say when trying to support trans folks! See more resources about supporting trans and non-binary students! (Credit: Raffi Rex)

     Hey, just because you’re transgender, or you like to think of yourself as such doesn’t mean everyone has to fucking cater to you. You have no right to demand special treatment or respect from anyone. It’s disturbing how you think you deserve anything other than passive acceptance, because you don’t. So you want to become transgender? That’s great! Go for it. You do you. I got nothing, but respect for those who suffer gender dysphoria and wish to change themselves so they can be happy. I’m not going to treat you any differently than I would treat anyone else, and your asking me to do so proves just how selfish and/or entitled you really are.

Here’s how I think.

Respect is EARNED.
Not GIVEN, nor DEMANDED.

If you’ve been given, or demanded respect out of no context but that you’re “Transgender,” you are a fucking idiot and need to lose all that respect instantly. Plain and simple. 

So like, what do I have to do to EARN the right to have my correct name and pronouns used, and to make my own medical decisions? Because that’s all the op is saying, not to award trans people gold medals or anything.

Simple. Don’t demand anything. I have no issues with transgenders, just be a normal human being. 

Also, you absolutely cannot force anything onto anyone. More often than not, they won’t care what you want to be called. They’ll call you what they know you by. They’ll act as if you’re still the same person. 

Just because YOU changed doesn’t mean OTHERS have to change. That’s ludicrous.

Most of the panels don’t even “demand” anything other than to not be a nosy busybody, though? Do you find that particularly demanding?

Um like name changes are invalid forever, everyone! Remembering and using a new name is going to overload people’s synapses. Fuck your marriage, who cares if you goes by your husband’s name now.

In fact, all names are canceled forever; too demanding. We identify each other by scent the way nature intended.

Also you haven’t answered my original question, I notice. How does a person EARN the right to be called the right names and pronouns?

This just in: thewallstreetpaper is from now on known as Shitstain Fucktrumpet, and if they say we’re not to call them that they DEMAND us to give them respect, which they clearly haven’t earned.

thestreetwallpaper:

lj-writes:

thestreetwallpaper:

cullingofthelambs:

glsen:

What you should and should NOT say when trying to support trans folks! See more resources about supporting trans and non-binary students! (Credit: Raffi Rex)

     Hey, just because you’re transgender, or you like to think of yourself as such doesn’t mean everyone has to fucking cater to you. You have no right to demand special treatment or respect from anyone. It’s disturbing how you think you deserve anything other than passive acceptance, because you don’t. So you want to become transgender? That’s great! Go for it. You do you. I got nothing, but respect for those who suffer gender dysphoria and wish to change themselves so they can be happy. I’m not going to treat you any differently than I would treat anyone else, and your asking me to do so proves just how selfish and/or entitled you really are.

Here’s how I think.

Respect is EARNED.
Not GIVEN, nor DEMANDED.

If you’ve been given, or demanded respect out of no context but that you’re “Transgender,” you are a fucking idiot and need to lose all that respect instantly. Plain and simple. 

So like, what do I have to do to EARN the right to have my correct name and pronouns used, and to make my own medical decisions? Because that’s all the op is saying, not to award trans people gold medals or anything.

Simple. Don’t demand anything. I have no issues with transgenders, just be a normal human being. 

Also, you absolutely cannot force anything onto anyone. More often than not, they won’t care what you want to be called. They’ll call you what they know you by. They’ll act as if you’re still the same person. 

Just because YOU changed doesn’t mean OTHERS have to change. That’s ludicrous.

Most of the panels don’t even “demand” anything other than to not be a nosy busybody, though? Do you find that particularly demanding?

Um like name changes are invalid forever, everyone! Remembering and using a new name is going to overload people’s synapses. Fuck your marriage, who cares if you goes by your husband’s name now.

In fact, all names are canceled forever; too demanding. We identify each other by scent the way nature intended.

Also you haven’t answered my original question, I notice. How does a person EARN the right to be called the right names and pronouns?

iammyfather:

lj-writes:

thestreetwallpaper:

cullingofthelambs:

glsen:

What you should and should NOT say when trying to support trans folks! See more resources about supporting trans and non-binary students! (Credit: Raffi Rex)

     Hey, just because you’re transgender, or you like to think of yourself as such doesn’t mean everyone has to fucking cater to you. You have no right to demand special treatment or respect from anyone. It’s disturbing how you think you deserve anything other than passive acceptance, because you don’t. So you want to become transgender? That’s great! Go for it. You do you. I got nothing, but respect for those who suffer gender dysphoria and wish to change themselves so they can be happy. I’m not going to treat you any differently than I would treat anyone else, and your asking me to do so proves just how selfish and/or entitled you really are.

Here’s how I think.

Respect is EARNED.
Not GIVEN, nor DEMANDED.

If you’ve been given, or demanded respect out of no context but that you’re “Transgender,” you are a fucking idiot and need to lose all that respect instantly. Plain and simple. 

So like, what do I have to do to EARN the right to have my correct name and pronouns used, and to make my own medical decisions? Because that’s all the op is saying, not to award trans people gold medals or anything.

I don’t care what your birth certificate says, what gives you the RIGHT to be called that?  Since when do I have to change what I call you just because you got married?

Clearly every person has to prove themselves in gladitorial combat to EARN the right to be called their own name. What do you mean, you want to be called “Frank?” Stop asking to be catered to, you coddled cuck.

thestreetwallpaper:

cullingofthelambs:

glsen:

What you should and should NOT say when trying to support trans folks! See more resources about supporting trans and non-binary students! (Credit: Raffi Rex)

     Hey, just because you’re transgender, or you like to think of yourself as such doesn’t mean everyone has to fucking cater to you. You have no right to demand special treatment or respect from anyone. It’s disturbing how you think you deserve anything other than passive acceptance, because you don’t. So you want to become transgender? That’s great! Go for it. You do you. I got nothing, but respect for those who suffer gender dysphoria and wish to change themselves so they can be happy. I’m not going to treat you any differently than I would treat anyone else, and your asking me to do so proves just how selfish and/or entitled you really are.

Here’s how I think.

Respect is EARNED.
Not GIVEN, nor DEMANDED.

If you’ve been given, or demanded respect out of no context but that you’re “Transgender,” you are a fucking idiot and need to lose all that respect instantly. Plain and simple. 

So like, what do I have to do to EARN the right to have my correct name and pronouns used, and to make my own medical decisions? Because that’s all the op is saying, not to award trans people gold medals or anything.