Why TME Ace Exclusionists Are Especially Susceptible To TERF Recruitment Tactics

korrasera:

thepageofhopes:

compersion-kitty-says:

fierceawakening:

socialjusticeichigo:

courteousmingler:

first of all, check out this (x) post first. it’s required reading. 

when you want to indoctrinate someone into an ideology they find repulsive, the first thing you do is introduce them to the themes of that ideology but package it in a way that they’ll accept. 

we’ll call the person being groomed to accept TERF ideology the “mark”. con man terminology seems fitting. 

If you want to turn them against a group they currently want to protect (we’ll call this group A), then you need to first introduce them to all the arguments you’ll use to demonize group A in a setting where they’ll be open to accepting these arguments.

 the easiest way to do this is to use these same arguments and tactics to demonize another group that your mark feels neutral/volatile toward, and we’ll call this group B.

keep the tactics the same, keep your means of propaganda the same- but pick an acceptable target. a target that won’t make your mark feel a defensive gut reaction like they would if you attacked group A off the bat.

 as long as you convince your mark that your reasons for despising group B are valid, then if you play your cards right and indoctrinate them deeply enough into hating group B, they’ll be far more open to accepting your ideology when you say that group A is evil for the same reasons as group B.

this is propaganda, cult mentality, and scapegoating 101. 

but the most important factor in this is making sure all of your arguments used against group B are nearly identical to those used against group A. You slowly get your mark to recognize these arguments as totally logical and valid reasons to despise a group of people, so that when you reveal that group A supposedly shares those traits with group B, your mark won’t be able to claim that your hatred of group A is wrong without also admitting their hatred of group B was also wrong. and at this point, your mark will be so deeply entrenched in a hatred for group B that their pride and anger won’t allow them to admit that their hatred isn’t grounded in logic. 

they’ll declare group A to be their enemy sooner than they’ll swallow their pride and admit they were wrong to hate group B. 

this is why TERF’s are almost exclusively ace exclusionists, and why there’s screenshots floating around of TERFs admitting that ace exclusionism helped them “realize” that TERF ideology was “right”. 

“WORDS MEAN DIFFERENT THINGS WHEN YOU CHANGE THEM, SO IT DOESN’T MATTER IF ACE EXCLUSIONIST RHETORIC READS JUST LIKE TERF RHETORIC BUT WITH ‘TRANSGENDER’ SWITCHED WITH ‘ASEXUAL’!”

The fact that TERFs and acephobes used the same arguments couldn’t be more relevant, because you’re being groomed to accept these arguments as being logical so that you’ll be susceptible to recruitment when you see the same argumentative points coming from TERFs. 

“All the studies claiming they face housing discrimination and sexual assault for their identity are fake, they’ve been debunked!”

“They only reason ANY LGBT organization acknowledges them is because they feel THREATENED by them!”

“They’re our oppressor, and any violence they face is only because society associates them with us! So it’s their own fault for having a fetish for pretending to be oppressed! What few assaults happen would stop if they just dropped the facade and admitted they’re privileged.”

“They’re ‘educaiting’ MINORS about their bullshit labels. They’re trying to get CHILDREN involved in their weird oppression fetish, am I the only one who finds that really predatory?”

“The fact they’re so obsessed with entering our spaces when we feel unsafe around them literally proves that they’re no different from any other member of our oppressor lmao”

if i hear “That peer-reviewed nation wide study was debunked in three paragraphs by a 16 yr old on tumblr! so those victims of oppression don’t actually exist” one more fucking time.

remember that time discourseprincesa, a cis girl, called for the deaths of a handful of specific trans women who’d pointed out these similarities while acephobes defended her doing so and cheered her on. yeah

someone reblog this with screenshots of one of the “Yeah, acephobia led me into radical feminism” incidents.

acephobes. you’re literally being desensitized to TERF talking points. trans women keep warning you, TERFs keep making ace exclusionist blogs to try and convert you. TERF methods are inherently wrong whether they’re used against trans women or asexuals, because these methods are literally designed specifically to discredit an oppressed group so that violence against them isn’t taken seriously.

little TERFs in training. TERFlets.

“someone reblog this with screenshots of one of the “Yeah, acephobia led me into radical feminism” incidents.“

You mean like this.

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I’ve been asking for receipts on this for a while. Here’s one.

eww 😦

This is what I mean when I talk about that all
This shit leads back to terfs.

It’s because authoritarians need to try to convert other people that look like and sound like them to being authoritarians too, otherwise they don’t feel safe.

I’m reminded of something Stephen Fry said during an interview:

Yes, I’m drawing a direct parallel between homophobia and the transphobia and ace exclusionism you see demonstrated by TERFs and aphobes. It’s all bigotry being expressed by authoritarians.

spottyartful:

alittlebitofanerd:

desmospain:

spencer-shayy:

xmagnet-o:

cazzounteschio:

phalloid-destroyer:

queer-bluejay:

anyways……. shout out to all the ace people this pride month. ur sexuality deserves to be accepted alongside the rest of us. i love yall so much, and i want yall to know that there’s a whole community here who loves you too.

lgb community isn’t a dumpster to put “weird” people. Take you kweerness away from me.

“lgb” found the terf

Hey everyone @phalloid-destroyer is Terf who doesn’t belong in our (LGBT+) community.

Don’t engage. Block and Report.

Keep Pride Safe, Inclusive & Terf-Free

No, keep Pride safe and free from violence and homophobia. Imprison queers and trans activists.

The more time passes the less I wanna be part of the lgb

“LGB” … TERFs, TERFs everywhere 😒

stay in your LGB trashcan, you’re not invited to our LGBT luxury yacht AND my birthday party

“Imprison queers and trans activists” is really a thing that oozed out of a TERF’s fingertips. Shocking.

Be sure to block spencer-shayy along with other TERFs, she is a violent transphobe and rape apologist who used a trans man’s rape to misgender trans and enby people and said that trans men and AFAB enbye were “cowardly” and trying to “opt out of” misogyny (link).

kiwianaroha:

dogslug:

shithowdy:

johnniewaswolf:

bogleech:

the latest evil secret of vaccines: mutant transgender potion

not my screenshot, I never would have protected these names

h o l y s h i t

if you cannibalize people of your preferred sex you’ll transition faster it’s science

it’s true, my transition was going slowly until i started eating 2.5 cis men per day, now i have a 3 foot beard and my boobs just fell off

“I can’t imagine injecting female DNA into my boys” lady I have some bad news for you about how human reproduction works…

geekandmisandry:

queer-of-spades:

babylonsabby:

the-black–plague:

peach-course:

Do not support Adam (2018)

I recently heard the news that Adam by Ariel Schrag will be getting a movie. I read the book myself about a year and a half ago and I cannot stress enough just how problematic it is.

Adam is a book about a cis boy pretending to be a trans man in order to trick a lesbian into dating him.

Adam goes to New York to stay with his lesbian sister for the summer, and while he’s there he meets trans men who consider themselves lesbians. At a party he meets a lesbian he thinks is pretty and in order to get into a relationship with her he lies and tells her he’s a pre transition trans man. Let’s make a list of some of the highlights from the book, shall we?

  • At the very beginning of the book his sister and her girlfriend visit home and Adam and his friend spies on them having sex.
  • Almost all the trans men in the book identify as lesbians, implying that they are still women because they haven’t transitioned yet.
  • Adam, a cis straight boy, tells a lesbian that he is a trans man to trick her into dating him.
  • Incidentally Adam is 17 I believe, pretending to be 21. His girlfriend is in the 23 range, I don’t recall exactly.
  • There are explicit sex scenes, the first of which involved Adam using an ace bandage to hold his erection down and using a strapon to have sex with her.
  • In the second one he claims to be using a strapon but is, in reality, using his actual penis.
  • Which is fucking rape.
  • The book doesn’t try to justify this, it somehow manages to do something worse.
  • This second scene is one of the last in the book. After he pulls out he lays down next to her and confesses that he’s not trans. She responds “I know.”
  • She says after they first had sex she started fantasizing about him as a “real guy” (yes quote) and that the image stuck in her mind and she started subconsciously imagining him with a penis.
  • And it gets worse.
  • So he goes back to ohio and she sleeps with other girls (because for some reason she decides not to break up with this cis 17 year old who lied about his identity literally raped her) and one night he gets drunk and calls her a bitch and a fucking whore and whatever, and THAT’S apparently the point she thinks that maybe they should break up.
  • And one day they message eachother to catch up i think maybe he graduated at this point idk but hes planning on visiting his sister in new york and they wanna meet up and
  • She tells him about her new boyfriend.
  • Get ready for it
  • Cis. Man.

So. We have

An underage cishet boy lying about being an adult trans man in order to trick a lesbian into dating him!

A scene in which he actually rapes her!

The lesbian in question becomes attracted to cis men making Adam, essentially, conversion therapy!

Do NOT support Adam (2018)

Ariel Schrag used to sometimes be in my high school for some reason, so I’ve met her in person and let me tell you with just one look at her it becomes obvious that she sees trans men as an advanced form of butch women

Ugh, this is both lesbophobic AND transphobic. Every single bit of this is gross. Just when you thought Hollywood was getting “better” it pulls this shit.

Google Books summary:

“But then he meets Gillian, the girl of his dreams. If only she weren’t a lesbian! And if only she didn’t believe he was really (sort of) a girl.”

Why are things so gross and terrible.

The cover of this book includes the following endorsement by Alison Bechdel: “The sexual revolution is finally over, and Ariel Schrag has won.”

… K alison, whatever you say.

Also according to other reviews it is really racist, including the n word and the phrase “weird Asian pussies”

Also the character described himself as half Jewish and there is someone with a “jew fetish”.

bitter-bitchbites:

lj-writes:

theysayimmo:

ultrageekygirl:

phoenixreal:

fanby-from-space:

roskiiart:

enid-against-fujoshis:

seraph-s:

nerdgul:

imtooqueerforyournonsense:

terflies:

vince-dafreak:

Being trans is not special or fun.

You need dysphoria to be trans.

Being cisgender is great.

Being trans is not your aesthetic.

Truscum/transmeds are the only ones who really care about trans people.

Hopefully, people like Skye are still a minority.
If you have gender dysphoria, I hope you will be alright. You can always talk to me if you feel bad

Also, sorry for my English mistakes

>> Visit my art blog [NSFW]

“Truscum/transmeds are the only ones who really care about trans people.”

Never mind that that’s not true; it’s outright manipulation of vulnerable people.

anyway, skye is a boy and i support him way fucking more than i would ever support truscum

I fixed it.

@vince-dafreak anyway you dont get to play god and decide peoples gender for them and you being a trans man doesnt give you authority over others peoples presentations and identities!

THANK YOU FOR FIXING THIS POST YOU’RE BLESSED

Truscums: wants you to hate yourself and kiss cis people’s asses

Trans people: want you to love yourself, dysphoric or little dysphoria

reblogging for the fixed editions.  

Support all trans people. Not just the ones you think look right.

Not our job to decide what somone else’s gender identity is. It’s for them to decide.

This post has been improved 1000% since the first time I saw it

Not that dysphoria is necessary for being trans and also truscum can go fuck themselves, but even on their own terms the OP was saying Skye has dysphoria? I mean it literally says in the picture he got a binder.

Also this idea that being transgender has to be some kind of sickness or suffering seems transphobic of itself. Many trans people do have dysphoria, but being trans is not inherently some sort of curse, like wtf. Notice how OP says being cisgender is great but has nothing good to say about being transgender.

yeah basically. tho someone can have a binder without being dysphoric, sometimes, it’s a big hint. cuz that stuff is costy and hurts ur back lol u dont wear it for fun but for comfort, yeah.

and frankly dysphoria being caused by being misgendered and having our gender mocked and invalidated (by ppl like op, for example), it comes and goes. we’re not born with it but it happens to grow too often, and it doesn’t go away with transitionning like truscums love to lie about to reassure themselves. only self-love, and therapy when too serious, help.

nerdgul, seraph-s, you’re the real deals out here. the edit of the original image looks better than it, ffs.

and skye is basically saying the same thing as damian but with less words but okay.

et vince, ducon de mes pompes pourries, il serait temps d’arrêter d’être un lèche-cul fragile  de la sofec, hein !!!

Good info, thank you. Also there’s the blatant gender role policing and cissexism in the op, like “you must be THIS masculine and also pass as cis to be a real man.” It’s such a mess on all levels.

theysayimmo:

ultrageekygirl:

phoenixreal:

fanby-from-space:

roskiiart:

enid-against-fujoshis:

seraph-s:

nerdgul:

imtooqueerforyournonsense:

terflies:

vince-dafreak:

Being trans is not special or fun.

You need dysphoria to be trans.

Being cisgender is great.

Being trans is not your aesthetic.

Truscum/transmeds are the only ones who really care about trans people.

Hopefully, people like Skye are still a minority.
If you have gender dysphoria, I hope you will be alright. You can always talk to me if you feel bad

Also, sorry for my English mistakes

>> Visit my art blog [NSFW]

“Truscum/transmeds are the only ones who really care about trans people.”

Never mind that that’s not true; it’s outright manipulation of vulnerable people.

anyway, skye is a boy and i support him way fucking more than i would ever support truscum

I fixed it.

@vince-dafreak anyway you dont get to play god and decide peoples gender for them and you being a trans man doesnt give you authority over others peoples presentations and identities!

THANK YOU FOR FIXING THIS POST YOU’RE BLESSED

Truscums: wants you to hate yourself and kiss cis people’s asses

Trans people: want you to love yourself, dysphoric or little dysphoria

reblogging for the fixed editions.  

Support all trans people. Not just the ones you think look right.

Not our job to decide what somone else’s gender identity is. It’s for them to decide.

This post has been improved 1000% since the first time I saw it

Not that dysphoria is necessary for being trans and also truscum can go fuck themselves, but even on their own terms the OP was saying Skye has dysphoria? I mean it literally says in the picture he got a binder.

Also this idea that being transgender has to be some kind of sickness or suffering seems transphobic of itself. Many trans people do have dysphoria, but being trans is not inherently some sort of curse, like wtf. Notice how OP says being cisgender is great but has nothing good to say about being transgender.